Having class is to display self-respect, appreciation, and etiquette and not allow your mood to affect your manners. Being classy doesn’t mean that you should be snobby or stuck up, but that you should have dignity, consideration, and moderation in your daily actions.

Having class is important and I’m not talking about the knowing which fork to use at dinner, I mean you can learn that stuff too, but I don’t think that’s as important.

10 TIPS TO BE CLASSY.

1. Don’t be mean. Ignore the people being spiteful to you and just move on with your life on your own terms.
2. Say things like, “no, thank you” or “yes, please” don’t respond with a “yea, yup, nope, or nah”
3. Give compliments when you sincerely mean them. Insecurities are easier to read than we think.
4. Offer to help and be considerate to those around you.
5. Don’t be petty
6. Don’t be entitled or snobby. Practice having a heart of gratitude, always say thank you for specific actions or generosities.
7. Don’t post petty post on social media. I know it’s hard especially how easy it is to say things with a push of a button without having to face them directly. It’s not worth it. Just try to refrain, you will feel better the next day.
8. Seek the truth and don’t believe everything you hear. Defend your truth even when it isn’t popular. Have a strong sense of right and wrong. 
9. Speak faithfully. Know yourself, strengths and visions. Do the right thing even when it is not expected of you.
10. Be authentic! You could have lost a family member, dog, issues with your best friend, lost a job, or just life’s problems and that’s all fine as long as you’re authentic. You can acknowledge the pain, perhaps share your feelings with friends and family but hold yourself with grace and poise.

I understand it can be hard to keep it together and we’ve all been through situations where we do react with anger, but in the end, it’s not worth it. You just end up looking stupid the next day and end up regretting it. So next time if you’re in a situation where you’re getting worked up, take a deep breath, go for a walk, take a nap. Don’t let it get to you.

As always thank you for reading, I appreciate you and your time.

xx